A few of my feminine friends asked me to go clubbing with them, and I have no idea what to wear. I’m not comfortable wearing girly party/clubbing clothing (whatever that means), nor am I comfortable wearing something super masculine. I want something kind of in the grey, androgynous zone, with a very slight lean towards femininity. Thank you!!

Everyone seems to think of clubbing as a big scary endeavor that is completely separate from every other part of life and requires you to wear different clothes or even project a more charming and outgoing persona. I’ve gotten questions from a few nervous clubbers who aren’t trusting their instincts in what to wear.

But the truth is that clubbing is just like anything else you do for fun with your friends. So dress the way you would for any night out, keeping in mind that whatever layers you have are going to get ripped off once you’re breaking it down.

Or do this:

Ponte Rolled Sleeve Blazer, available at Topshop for $70

T-shirt with Eagle Sunset Print, available at ASOS for $20.44

Ripped Vintage Boyfriend Jean #13, available at ASOS for $54

Michael Kors Slim Classic Watch in Silver, available at Revolve Clothing for $160

Converse Red All Stars, on sale at Yoox for £35.00

As Qwear's Founding Editor, Sonny’s work centers around envisioning a future in which the clothing people wear does not dictate their chances of survival. Sonny was awarded 2015 dapperQ of the Year and was the first trans blogger to be sponsored by Topman. In March 2016, Sonny spoke at South by South West's first official queer fashion panel.